"Motherhood and The Moral Influence of Women"
World Congress of Families II, Geneva, Plenary Session IV, November 16,
1999
...perhaps the most significant factor is the literacy of
women. Women have always impacted entire cultures. Their influence
begins in each society's very core--the home, where women have always
taught and modeled what Tocqueville called "the habits of the heart"--
the mores, or civilizing habits, that create a sense of personal and civic
virtue, without which free and open societies can't exist. ...
A child is an echo charnber. If he hears the sounds of love from his
mother, he will later speak those same sounds of love to others. But if
the mother's signals are confusing and hateful, the child will later feel
confused and hateful.9 Whether a mother feels support from her
husband, her family, and her society profoundly influences whether she
feels like a mother of hope—who values herself enough to nurture a child
of hope with the milk of human kindness. And children of hope create a
society of hope. ...
Consider now, in summary, a true story from Australian history
that illustrates the power of women's moral influence as mothers of
hope, women of fidelity, wives of commiünent, and nurturers of human
ties. In its early decades as a British colony, Australia was avast
wilderness designated as a jail for exiled convicts. Until 1850, six of
every seven people who went "down under" from Britain were men.
And the few women who went were often convicts or social outcasts
themselves. The men ruthlessly exploited them, sexually and in other
ways. With few exceptions, these women without hope were powerless
to change their conditions.
In about 1840, a reformer named Caroline Chisholm urged that
more women would stabilize the culture. She told the British
government the best way to establish a community of "great and good
people"in Australia: "For all the clergy you can despatch, all the
schoolmasters you can appoint, all the churches you can build, and all
the books you can export, will never do much good without ... 'God's
police'-- wives and little children--good and virtuous women."
Chisholm searched for women who would raise "the moral
standard of the people." She spent twenty years traveling to England,
recruiting young women and young couples who believed in the
common sense principles of family life. Over time, these women tamed
the men who were taming the wild land; and civil society in Australia
gradually emerged. Also, the colonial govemments enacted policies that
elevated women's status and reinforced family life.23 As one historian
said, "the initial reluctance of the wild colonial boys to marry was
eroded fairly quickly." Eventually, thousands of new immigrants who
shared the vision of these "good and virtuous women" established stable
families as the basic unit of Australian society more quickly than had
occurred "anywhere else in the Western world."...
Homosexual "Marriage" and Civilization
Orson Scott Card
15 February 2004
Orson Scott Card: Communities succeed with monogamy Deseret News 2 Oct 2008
The Divine Institution of Marriage
LDS Newsroom, 13 August 2008
Current iteration:
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Tolerance obviously requires a non-contentious manner of relating toward one another’s differences. But tolerance does not require abandoning one’s standards or one’s opinions on political or public policy choices. Tolerance is a way of reacting to diversity, not a command to insulate it from examination....
...However, speaking out against practices with which the Church disagrees on moral grounds – including same-sex marriage – does not constitute abuse or the frequently misused term “hate speech.”...
...When a man and a woman marry with the intention of forming a new family, their success in that endeavor depends on their willingness to renounce the single-minded pursuit of self-fulfillment and to sacrifice their time and means to the nurturing and rearing of their children. Marriage is fundamentally an unselfish act: legally protected because only a male and female together can create new life, and because the rearing of children requires a life-long commitment, which marriage is intended to provide. Societal recognition of same-sex marriage cannot be justified simply on the grounds that it provides self-fulfillment to its partners, for it is not the purpose of government to provide legal protection to every possible way in which individuals may pursue fulfillment. By definition, all same-sex unions are infertile, and two individuals of the same gender, whatever their affections, can never form a marriage devoted to raising their own mutual offspring....
Many who shout 'intolerance' embrace tyrannyMatthew Sanders October 30, 2008
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Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy argued that "unbounded relativism as a civic philosophy soon becomes passivity and indifference: No judgments can be made, for it is impossible to place one set of values over another. This is a far cry from toleration derived from a belief in universal rights. If, in the civic sphere, relativism swallows tolerance whole, belief in universal rights turns into no belief at all."...
...Elder Russell M. Nelson adds, "Gracious tolerance for an individual does not grant him or her license to do wrong, nor does your tolerance obligate you to tolerate his or her misdeed" (Ensign, May 1994). We make no pretention of perfection, nor do we withhold compassion and understanding, but we do maintain our privilege to act on principle....
No Case for Homosexuality in Bible
Joseph Bottum, John Mark Reynolds, Bruce D. Porter
...Reject the Bible, if you will–but don’t pretend it means just what you want it to mean. The plain fact is that when the Old Testament talks about homosexual behavior, it condemns it. And when, in the New Testament, the followers of Jesus encountered homosexual acts, they quickly and universally condemned them....
The Institution Formerly Known As Marriage by Jennifer Roback Morse
Public Discourse 24 Apr 2009
Elder Bruce C. Hafen Speaks on Same-Sex Attraction 19 Sep 2009
The following address was given by Elder Bruce C. Hafen at the Evergreen International annual conference on 19 September 2009:
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Many other people also live heroically with uninvited daily struggles....
...Having same-gender attraction is NOT in your DNA, but being a child of God clearly IS in your spiritual DNA—only one generation removed from Him whom we call Father in Heaven....
...How much is “all we can do” for one who suffers same-gender attraction? I don’t know. But I do know that “all we can do” is less than many of you think it is,...
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your faith in God must run so deep that, first, you know, first of all that He has the power to remove your unwanted same-gender attraction—“he is able to deliver us from the furnace.” But, second, if He doesn’t deliver you right now (“but if not”), for whatever reason, you will not give up on Him or on yourself....
...as President Packer said, “The angels of the devil convince some that they are born to a life from which they cannot change and are compelled to live in sin. The most wicked of lies is that they cannot change and repent and that they will not be forgiven.”[xxii] If you believe no change is possible, you have only two options, neither of which is acceptable to a believing Latter-day Saint — you must either give in or give up. Thankfully, you have other options....
...To tolerate behavior is to move it, legally, from being prohibited to being permitted, which we did in deciding not to prosecute homosexual behavior as criminal. However, we can tolerate or permit that behavior without also endorsing it — that is, promoting and encouraging that behavior, which we have historically done only when the behavior serves a significant public purpose....
...Both no-fault divorce and same-gender marriage allow personal adult rights to trump the best interests of society and children. The radical personal freedom theory on which the Massachusetts same-gender marriage case is based is actually the logical extension of the same individualistic legal concept that created no-fault divorce. Think about it. When the law upholds an individual’s right to END a marriage, regardless of social consequences (as happened with no-fault divorce), that same legal principle can be used to justify the individual’s right to START a marriage, regardless of social consequences (as happens with same-gender marriage)....
ON THE DIGNITY OF HUMAN LIFEAND CIVIC RESPONSIBILITYThe Most Reverend Raymond L. BurkeBishop of LaCrosse
Apologia for Evil: Also an award-winning motion pictureRod Dreher
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That's the philosophical heart of this film: Individual happiness is the highest good in anyone's life, and brave are those who have the courage to put personal fulfillment above any other entanglement. The Hours is a fairytale for contemporary narcissists. No wonder Hollywood loves it so....
...It's superficial to think that happiness comes easy; some people have everything, and yet are still estranged from themselves. It's even more superficial, though, to think the point of life is to find personal happiness. Most people outgrow that egotistical worldview after their teenage years, and come to understand that the task is to live a meaningful life, if not a happy one. A meaningful life is to be found in love, in living nobly and selflessly in the service of something or someone greater than oneself: God, family, friends, country, humanity, or some combination thereof. The secret to happiness is paradoxical: You find it most truly and deeply through loving others more than you love yourself. Only a father can know how joyful it feels to cradle his crying newborn at three in the morning. Only a saint or a hero knows the joy of dying so that others might live....
..."Hell is other people," said Sartre, because they keep us from becoming our true selves. So too says The Hours, because we fail if we become entangled by commitments that prevent us from fulfilling our desires. Selfishness is a virtue. It's no surprise that this heartless movie is a favorite of the American cultural elite, but for everybody else, The Hours isn't worth five minutes of one's time.
Jewish World Review Jan. 17, 2003 / 14 Shevats, 5763
Julia Gorin
"The Hours": I am woman. Hear me bore.
Here I've spent the past five years thinking I was happily married. Thank god my friend convinced me to see the critically-acclaimed, Paramount-Miramax release "The Hours," nominated for seven Golden Globes and starring Nicole Kidman, Meryl Streep and Julianne Moore. Because it lifted the veil from my eyes to reveal that I'm actually a lesbian who must leave her husband and children immediately, before their love drives me to overdose on pills or drown myself in a river.
Based on author Michael Cunningham's Pulitzer prize-winning 1998 novel, "The Hours" moves back and forth among three different time periods and three different women. Its message is that anything, anything is better than living a societally-imposed heterosexual life, in a house, in the suburbs--even if it means living alone as a librarian the way Moore's Laura Brown, who is very pregnant with her second child, chooses to do after rethinking an overdose for herself and the baby, opting instead to abandon the family after giving birth.
Or else it is not life that one is living, but a lie. For the dream of idyllic suburban family life can belong only to man, jailer of unsuspecting woman. At least Moore gets to kiss her seemingly perfect but actually sterile and momentarily willing next-door neighbor Kitty on the mouth.
Like Mrs. Brown's pathetic husband, Virginia Woolf's (Nicole Kidman) pathetic husband has sequestered her to the peace of the countryside after London life exacerbated her madness. But, as Woolf convinces her husband, the "death" of living in the suburbs is more maddening than the jolt of city life that she so craves, for it is only in the latter setting that one can thrive. Before returning to the city, Kidman gets to kiss Miranda Richardson, who plays her sister, passionately on the mouth.
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Janney plays the long-time companion of Clarissa Vaughan (Meryl Streep), who seems to be living the most honestly of the three heroines: in a 10-year relationship with her lesbian partner and, for a shorter time, with a sperm that, together with single then double motherhood, has produced the perfect child, played by Claire Danes--whom we can infer from manner and dress to be a budding lesbian herself. Danes portrays a remarkably well-adjusted daughter who goes to college, helps her mother, is kind to strangers and has no curiosity about the sperm that spawned her.
The once wrongly married Laura Brown envies the rightly never-married Clarissa Vaughan, because she conceived a child she actually wanted. Little does Mrs. Brown know that Vaughan has been pining away for that which every woman, lesbian or not, secretly desires--a gay man. In this case, the gay man is Mrs. Brown's estranged son, played by Ed Harris, who is dying of AIDS and tosses himself from the window. (His circumstances are all the more tragic, since his lifestyle was picture perfect: gay and living in the city.) As Kidman's closing narration tells us to look life in the face, Streep gets over her pining for the dead gay man she can't have, and grabs Janney's face, kissing it passionately on the mouth.
Yes, look life in the face, advises "The Hours," whether that means doing so as a lesbian, as a loner or as a suicide (and nothing in between). Yet the film, an elaborate setup to get us from one Saphic kiss to the next, is so transparent in its perverse propagandizing that it can't be accused of being insidious. Indeed, given the current literary and cinematic climate, it could easily be mistaken for parody.
One's hope for Mr. Cunningham's next literary triumph, as for director Stephen Daldry's and screenwriter David Hare's cinematic one, is that it might find even greater social resonance, perhaps by exploring more courageous themes such as pedophilia, necrophilia, incestuous pedophilia, and incestuous necrophilia.
Missing LinkBy STANLEY KURTZJanuary 14, 2003 1:45 PMMarriage and cloning.
Souls, Symbols, and SacramentsJEFFREY R. HOLLANDPresident of Brigham Young UniversityJan. 12, 1988 • Devotional
PASTORING THE FAR SIDE:MAKING A PLACE FOR BELIEVINGHOMOSEXUALSA conversation with Stan Roberts.
The Genesis of Gender, or Why Mother in Heaven Can't Save You, Carrie A. Miles, Sunstone July 1997
Elder Russell M. Nelson: The Family: The Hope for the Future of Nations
By Elder Russell M. Nelson of the Quorum of the Twelve 12 AUG 2009
Following is the complete text of a talk given by Elder Russell M. Nelson at the World Congress of Families V in Amsterdam, Netherlands, on Aug. 12, 2009.
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Marriage is not simply a contract between individuals; it affects all of society. For that reason, governments have long recognized the family as the fundamental unit of society and have endorsed and encouraged traditional marriage through legal recognitions, protections and benefits....
...Furthermore, those who seek to undermine traditional marriage and family would effectively limit the rights of those who do uphold the sanctity of these institutions. This consequence leads to another major concern— the eventual erosion of religious liberty, including the liberty to defend, promote, and practice traditional family values.7 Religious liberty is essential if we are to raise up righteous children. Morally responsible families will not marginalize religious liberty, they will nurture and protect it....